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Process
Step
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Possible
Questions
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Determine what the issue is.
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Do you have any concerns?
Can you tell me why you’re hesitant to move forward?
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Understand the issue from the other person’s point of view.
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What are you most concerned about?
I’d like to understand why you feel the way you do. Can you tell me more?
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Verify that your understanding is correct; and also confirm whether there are any other objections.
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So it sounds like__________; do I have it
right?
So your primary concern is _______, do you have any other concerns? |
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Handle the real issues.
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Now that I understand your concerns, what would you think if we approached it this way….?
I have an idea of how we can both get what we need; what if we….?
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